I still don't have a "real" job. I'm teaching swim lessons and lifeguarding at the City of Boulder aquatics center to have some kind of income coming in. I'm also a teaching assistant for an undergrad class at CU Boulder. Both keep me busy, however, I don't consider either one a "real" job. (For anyone who doesn't think that times are tough, talk to me.) I visit craigslist.com on a daily basis, looking for anything, but the truth is unless you have a degree in nursing or accounting there's just nothing out there. I'm trying to stay positive and just get by right now, but a positive attitude is hard to keep when it just seems like there is no hope. I'm not the type of person to give up, so I'm not going to, but I am a realistic person. I'm realizing that for the next 6-12 months I may have to have 3 different jobs, not relating to architecture, just to get by. I have to be thankful though for Scott and my parents. They are cheering me on and offering advice and support. Without them I just don't know where I would be. Hopefully something will come around sooner than later. But until then, I'm just trying to stay positive and keep a smile on my face. Things could be worst.....
On a more positive note, Scott and I are busy planning our wedding. Even though it's still 15 months away, I have been brainstorming and planning for our big day. My Mom and I spend most of our conversations talking about the wedding and even my Dad is always wanting to be updated every time I talk to him. It seems like they are more excited, at times, then we are! They have really stepped up in offering to help Scott and I with the wedding costs. I don't know how I will ever repay them or thank them for everything they are doing. I have been blessed with the most amazing parents a girl could ask for!!! In order to keep costs down, I have been doing my reading on "recession weddings". It seems that Scott and I are not the only ones trying to plan a wedding during the worst economic times in 50 years. I think what this has taught me is that it's all about Scott and I and our family and friends. We want everyone to enjoy themselves while they are a part of the biggest day of our lives. We look forward to seeing everyone there!!!
Scott and I will be back in Iowa in March. My Grandmother is turning 80 years old so we are going back to celebrate with her and the rest of the family. We will only be back for a few days, but have every intention to make the rounds and see everyone. We will keep you all updated on our plans as the time gets closer.
I hope everyone is doing well. We miss you all!!!
Love,
H&S
